Stop blaming other people and situations.
Written by Dragan Nikolic on Nov. 17th 2020
I really do understand how hard life can be sometimes because I’ve been at every level.

I’ve experienced it all... the desperation, the suffering, the sadness, being broke…

I know what it’s like to think life will never get better.

I understand the emotions and I understand those feelings.

But the ONLY way they can ruin us is if we blame other people for them.

The truth is that the default mechanism in our brain is to find out “WHY” we’re unhappy, “WHY” we’re broke, “WHY” we’re in a dead end job we hate.

Our brain is programmed to find someone or something to blame so it never has to look in the mirror and painfully admit that it’s our fault.

NO! It is our fault!

We are completely responsible for everything in our life - the success we have AND the failure we have.

Why is it one person’s tragedy turns into their triumph while another person's tragedy is their downfall? It’s because the first person took full responsibility for their circumstances and they took full responsibility for their own success and failure. While the other person was just letting life happen to them!

So going into 2020, what if you stopped blaming anybody for your circumstances other than you. 

From this moment on, whenever you start to blame someone or something I challenge you to catch yourself and say, “Stop! I am responsible for my own success. I am responsible for my own life.

What if you shifted your mindset to think that those people and situations were strategically placed in your life as a part of your success rather than barriers to it?

Listen, sometimes it’s really hard to look in the mirror and say “It’s my fault” (especially when there are so many people you could easily blame). 

But when you do take full responsibility, the freedom of that is unbelievably empowering.

It gives you this relentless sense of confidence knowing once and for all that you are in control of your destiny. You are in control of your thoughts. 

You are in control of all your success (and your failure). It’s nobody else’s fault and it’s nobody else's responsibility that you reach your highest potential other than you.

Change that habit in 2020. Use that as advice. Make it a part of your exponential growth path and let’s kill it in the coming year! 

To your success,
Dragan


Dragan Nikolic 


Dragan Nikolic helps people start and grow successful hospitality career. He is an expert at helping people grow their salary using unique methods and making things super simple to understand.

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